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The 12 balance links throughout the human life




    七、邻里平衡:邻里平衡即与相邻人家和睦相处的状态。
    7. Neighbor balance: a harmonious state with neighbors.
    古人讲:家人不和外人欺,邻里不和起事非。邻里之间尤其是农村,相互接触频繁,难免有相互磕碰的时候。“家和万事兴,邻好多安宁”。要做到“邻好”——邻里平衡,我们有三条建议:
    According to ancient Chinese, a family in discord will be bullied by others, and a discord with the neighbor will cause troubles. Conflicts are hard to avoid during the frequent contacts between neighbors, especially in rural areas. “If the family lives in harmony, all will prosper. If one has a good neighbor, there will be peace.” To get along well with the neighbors or keep neighbor balance, here are three tips:
    1、遵守公德:人的一生不会有几个邻居。只要各家都能首先遵守社会公德,同时又能在对方有错时做到互谅互让。情况就会越来越好。
    (1) Abide by social morality. If members of all families can first abide by social morality, and try to understand each other and make mutual accommodation, the situation will be better and better.
    2、互敬互帮:多看邻里长处,多学邻里优点,多讲邻里好话。邻里有困难需要帮助时,要不遗余力、不图回报。平常日子最好不要上门打搅。有事拜访应先预约。
    (2) Mutual respect and help. Think and learn more the strong points of neighbors, and speak good of them. Whenever they need help, spare no effort to give a hand with no expectation for repay. Do not drop in to trouble them on ordinary days, otherwise, call them in advance.
    3、距离产生美:虽然邻里应和睦相处,但却不能过于近乎,否则就会走向反面。要相亲有间、相敬不远,找到“平衡点”,使邻里关系提升到“君子之交”的水平。
    (3) Distance produces beauty. One should try to get well with neighbors, but intimate relationship should be avoided, as intimacy may produce reverse effects. It’s advisable to find a “balance point” and create “friendship between gentlemen”.
平衡之道


  1. 生理平衡    2. 心理平衡    3. 饮食平衡    4. 作息平衡        5. 居室平衡    6. 家庭平衡
7. 邻里平衡    8. 单位平衡    9. 社会平衡    10.与大自然平衡    11.交往平衡    12.准平衡


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